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Why are you such an awesome guy?

Awwwwwwwwwww…. why are you making me blush so much!?  *blush blush blush*

Seriously… I’m really blushing right now.  And only the dogs are looking… wait, both are asleep.  So yea, nobody is seeing this and I’m blushing hardcore.  Lol.  OMG.  Haha…

Thank you so much for your kind words.  I’m just me, and I want to help where I can.  I surely appreciate your comment/question.  Truly… I’m still blushing.

Great question! ;-)  j/k  Thank you so much for that… totally made me smile…

~kev

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Hey, Kevin - hope you are well. I haven't been on the chat room for a while, and was back this evening -- what a great bunch of guys! Great conversation, interspersed with some spicy photos -- I've been on other chat rooms occasionally, and this is by far the best. Thanks for making it available. Lempriere

Lempriere!

I’m glad you have fun there!  I love love love that place when I have a chance to be there.  I’ve been so nutso with work that I haven’t had the time to spend there usual.  

But I will stress how many amazing people are in the chat room.  They are some of the most caring guys I have ever met, and truly have been lucky to get to know some of them.  If any of you ever have the chance to visit, please do.  And if nobody is in there, stick around.  People show up randomly, and then sometimes due to that, it can get really crazy!!

Thank you for your kind words.  I’m glad that you love mine the best!  

For those of you who want to check it out, please do!!

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/chat

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RAWR!  You won’t be sorry.  I mean it.  The guys there rock!  And thank you Lempriere for the feedback!  I’m honored that each and every one of them finds time to stop by (yourself included).  :-)

~kev

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Hi sexy! :D If you could play in one of your favourite movies, what movie would you choose and which character would you play? RAAAWR

Easy.  Back to the Future… Marty McFly.

I love love love love love love that series a lot.  It has a special place in my heart.  I think it would be awesome to time travel.  I mean, I would be OCD about not changing anything, but it would be so crazy to go back and see myself when I was younger.  How wild to see where you grew up and see life as it was then… and then head into the future and see how crazy it gets! Haha… Flying cars? hover boards?! OMG. Hahaha… 

It would be one hell of a trip… definitely a great adventure!

Great great question!  Wow.  I now have Back to the Future music stuck in my head… which is good because I couldn’t get “Reindeer(s) Are Better Than People” out of my head from when I was talking about it earlier this morning!  Argh!  Haha…

And now I have the music playing… so yes, definitely be fun to be in Marty’s world.

Granted, I would also be a sucker for just about any sci-fi film out there.  To be part of Star Trek or Star Wars or Battlestar Galactica or anything like that would be absolutely crazy too!  

So maybe not as easy as I had initially thought, but this is a lot of fun!  I’ll probably come up with a dozen more movies that I’d like to invade!  haha…

Thanks for the awesome question!

~kev

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How are your favorite couple in the movies/series?

I have too many to list… but here are a few:

  • Princess Leia/Han Solo in Star Wars
  • Zach and Shaun in Shelter
  • Belle and Beast in Beauty and the Beast
  • Satine and Christian in Moulin Rouge!
  • Kermit and Miss Piggie in The Muppets (all the movies)
  • Jack Skellington and Sally in The Nightmare before Christmas
  • Roger and Jessica Rabbit in Who Framed Roger Rabbit?
  • Harry and Hermione in Harry Potter (Yes! I know they didn’t date!  But it would have been interesting yes? ;-) RAWR! )

That’s just a few that I could think of.  I know… I’m missing a MILLION of other couples that I truly do love… but that’s what I could pull from memory.  Lol… 

Great question!

~kev

Anonymous
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You are just an amazement to me. You see the world, guys and being Gay just as I do. I really don't find many that see things just like this. The wonder of men's bodies, the smell of men and god know the amazing sex with men. Keep going it is so wonderful. My question is when you beat off do you eat or taste your own cum? I always do and many think it is so weird. I just love the way it tastes and wonder if you do this. Will

Well thank you thank you thank you!  I’m officially blushing like you wouldn’t believe.  Haha… RAWR!!!

Do I taste or eat my own cum?  From time to time, I’ll lick it off my fingers and stuff, but overall, I don’t do it all that often.  I have some close friends who always eat their cum like you do.  

I don’t find it weird at all, tho.  I truly don’t.  There are some men who have an amazing desire to eat it every time, and I think that’s really cool.  Some men don’t as much.  I would like to think that I’m in a third group of guys who love the fuck out of it… but only eat it on occasion.

I love the texture.  I love rubbing it on my body.  I love having it all over my hands.  I love it drying on me.  I love love love a lot of stuff about cum, but sometimes that wins over me eating it.  

I guess you could say that like everything else sexually, I love variety… from just playing with my cum… to rubbing it all over me… to eating it.  RAWR!

Great question, Will!  I’m glad to know that you eat it every time.  RAWR!

~kev

Anonymous
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How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference? I'm 19 almost 20 and I've really fallen for this guy who is 30 years older than me. I never thought I would feel this way about a man more than twice my age but he's just so hot. Would you date a man more than twice your age?

Would I?  If I felt the connection, sure.  I don’t have a problem with age.  I think that’s another society thing that just never stuck with me.  I have a friend that absolutely thinks its awful when there is a large age gap, and when I challenge her as to why… there’s never a strong reason.

Sure, you can argue that you are in two different points in your life, but that just means you bring two different and distinct viewpoints to the relationship.  

I have no problem with ages in either direction.  I know people that are much older that want to date much younger… and younger guys that want to date much older men.  I think that’s great!

Does it bring challenges?  Yes.  Society has a hard time with age gap relationships.  I think that’s shitty as we should really be able to love who we want.

You will always hear me talk about communication in relationships.  I think that it is something that you should pay attention to.  Why?  I think it can get easy to let him lead since he’s been doing it for a long time.  I think it’s also easy to get nervous if he brings in quite a bit of money.  While communication is definitely important in ANY relationship, I think it’s good to really talk it out here.  To make sure that you both see and acknowledge what it is that you bring to the table.  

Chris and I have 7 years apart in our relationship… and it was enough for there to be some “age related” disagreements.  I had to let go some of my “I already know how this ends” attitude and he had to experience things.  He had to let go of his “lacking decision” attitude and make decisions in our relationship so to prove our equality.  Now we experience things together.  He’s taken on more of me and I’ve taken on more of him.  When you talk to one of us, you are also getting to know the other.  But it took communication to get him and I there.

I tell you this because your age gap is quite a bit more than mine.  Again, absolutely NO problem with that.  I just want you to know what I experienced with our age gap.  I can only imagine it may be more evident the larger the gap.  You just have to both be very honest with what you want and make sure that you are on the same page always.  

I think it’s great that you both have found each other, and I think with communication, whatever it turns out to be will be a great experience.  So again, yes… if I felt I really connected with someone, age wouldn’t play a role in that decision for me.

Great question!  I hope that helps!

~kev

Anonymous
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Would you rather lick a vagina or not be able to have sex or masturbate for an entire year? Lol

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm….

Gah.  I really don’t know that answer.  I think if I could close my eyes, wear a mask, and have plastic wrap on my tongue… anything is possible!  :-D  j/k

I really don’t know.  I mean, you’re talking about giving up something I truly love deeply… to do something that I just know would not be something that I would enjoy at all.

The good about no sex/masturbation would be the incredible wet dreams that usually comes with that.  Haha… RAWR!

And sure, some people have absolutely no problem with licking a woman’s front bum (I got that from a movie)… but it’s just really not my thing.  

It’s like this… there are some people that can just bite right into a tomato and absolutely love it.  Then there are some people that could do it on a dare.  And then there are others that can’t get past the texture and mental images of what that would be like, and wouldn’t be able to do it.  There’s nothing wrong with the tomato… just some people aren’t interested.  

I fit in that last group with tomatoes… so I’m guessing you’d know my answer.  Lol…

RAWR!

~kev

Anonymous
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I got a request. :) Please sing Reindeers are better than People for me on your next radio show?

Great… now you got that song stuck in my head.  And I’m actually singing it right now.  Hahaha.  

I was at Disneyland the other day and got Chris a little Olaf.  It was really cute.  Chris saw it and told me that he was prepared to give it many warm hugs.  AWWWWWW… hahaha… :-D

So yea… I’ll have to sing that sometime. haha… ;-)

~kev

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Hi Kev! I really love your site and its content. And I fell in love with how you described and explained your love for men and being homosexual. It's like you read my mind and wrote down all those things you said in your podcast and wrote on your tumblr. Its amazing. My question is, I am a gay Pentecostal (branch of Christianity - really strict) and don't know if I should come out when I leave my parents place to go to college or when I finish college and have my own home and place to stay.

Thanks for the comments!  I’m blushing!!

I do love being homosexual.  I truly do.  And I’m glad that I’ve been reading your mind!  RAWR!!!!  Hahaha…

Alright, this is another tough question to answer.  When you come out should be something that YOU decide.  If you want to tell your parents when you head to college, great.  If you want to wait until you are completely supporting yourself, great.  Either would be fine.  

There is really no guide book here as to when you should come out.  I was going to list advantages of either, but at the end of the day… it’s really what YOU think.

If you are being supported by your parents and feel that they would cut you off at college, you may want to consider waiting so you can focus on getting the best education possible.  Some people will tell you that it’s selfish to do that, but I don’t think so.  College can be tough enough.  To have to have a full time job or get loans due to strict parents… just doesn’t sound like a great idea to me.  Sure, you would be self sufficient then… and some people would lean you to go that way… but racking up debt before you get on your feet isn’t always the best way to go.  I guess that depends on what it is that you’re looking to do.

I’m all about people coming out as fast as possible so they can live the life that they want.  But I’m also about making sure that while you do your studies, that you can stay focused and not have piles of debt to worry about because college isn’t cheap.

But again, these are just general suggestions.  You have to decide what would be best for you.  I don’t see a problem in you waiting until you get on your feet, but that would mean hiding yourself for potentially several more years.  If that’s acceptable to you, then there is your answer.

If you are dying to let them know, then tell them.  You may also be surprised… and they may definitely still support you through college.  They may also, however, decide to make you stay close to home due to you letting them know.  

Without having any info on your parents, all of these are guesses.  But I’m thinking that the reason you told me that your religion is strict is because you feel your parents would react negatively.

I hope this helps.  I know it doesn’t really answer your question much, but that’s because when we come out is something that we each have to decide for ourselves.  We have to weigh out everything and make the best choice available to us.  I’m all for someone to come out as soon as possible, but I’m also all about a person getting the financial support that is needed to have the best career opportunities available to them after college.

I would love to talk about it more with you.  I know it’s a hard choice.  Each of our circumstances make coming out highly unique.  I definitely support you in either decision that you make.  :-)

~kev

Anonymous
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do you still answer questions?

I do!  Sometimes it takes me awhile to get through the big ones… and I get a ton of questions that I can’t get to…but I am trying. :-)

~kev

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Hi Kevin, I am currently dating a wonderful guy and he is amazing. The problem is that he is very insecure about his body even though I think he is very very handsome. I know that in the past he has had eating disorders and other unhealthy habits. I'm worried that he will start doing these dangerous things again. I want him to know that he is beautiful, what should I do?

You want him to know that he is beautiful?  Tell him.  Talk to him about how much you love his body and the things that you like about it.  Express to him what you think about his looks.  

People are their own worst critics.  There are things that people dislike about their own bodies that others have no issues with.  I have people that will tell me about a scar or something that they feel is hideous but I find it attractive!  So the problem is that we ALL have things that we get self conscious about. 

So what do you do?  Keep telling him over and over how beautiful he is.  Go into what you love about him and his body.  Don’t JUST tell him he’s beautiful.  Let him know what drives you crazy about him.  Be honest.  Be sincere.  And because of that…while it may take a very long time… he is going to start believing you.

It may take a long time.  He may stumble from time to time, but as long as you keep letting him know what you think of him, it’ll build his confidence.  

As far as doing anything dangerous once again… communicate with him.  Share your concerns with him and let him know that you not only support him but if he struggles again, to come to you.  Why?  Because you’re both in it together.  He may have had to struggle with it before, but NO more!  He has you to help support him. 

That doesn’t mean that it may not get frustrating sometimes where you feel like he’s just not hearing you as you consistently tell him how handsome he is to you… but BE patient.  Be VERY patient.  If he’s been critical of himself for many years… then it may take a long time for him to push past it.  You think he’s amazing so just continue to push past it, and try your best to remind him how amazing he is to you.

Try that and see how it goes.  Communication is VERY important here.  And again, I can’t stress it enough.  Be patient.  Be sincere.  Support your man.  :-)

I’m here for you!

~kev

Anonymous
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Do you use emojis??

Sure?  Lol.  I do on texting/kik, I suppose.  

Thanks for the question!

~kev

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I'm having relationship trouble. I deeply love my boyfriend. I just don't think he will fit in with my future. Many people feel as if he's "rough around the edges" and "he's not conservative enough". I don't want to force him to change. Yet, in my heart, I know that these people are right; however, if I break up with him for those reasons, I would feel very superficial. I'm at a crossroad, and I do not know which way to turn.

Alright, this is a tough situation.  

First, nobody can force anyone to change.  Change has to come from within.  Always.  I know that people will try and change for others, but in the end… they have to really want to.

Second, the future is never written.  I can tell you that my “future” plans when I was younger… never went the way that I had thought they would go.  I never saw myself living in California (I’m from Texas).  I never saw myself even living up in Wisconsin.  I never pictured myself in the life that I have now.  Why is that important to know? Because while it is ALWAYS good to have dreams and aspirations, be very careful as to how all the pieces fit together.

You say that you deeply love your boyfriend.  I believe you.  And I imagine that he deeply loves you.  Are you willing to toss all of that aside because he doesn’t fit into your future that you have planned?  I actually mean that question.  It’s something you have to ask yourself.  ”Rough around the edges” and “not conservative enough”… to me… are hard reasons to let go of someone that you love.  

They say that opposites attract.  And we often merge in so many cool ways with our partner.  What do I mean?  Well, he’ll influence you as you influence him.  You’ll smooth him out a little while he’ll rough a little of your edges.  He’ll become a bit more conservative as you become a bit more liberal.  Does that scare you?  It shouldn’t.  Chris and I have bonded in so many amazing ways.  It’s a really cool thing about having a partner.  We share experiences and they influence us together.

I hesitate when I read that “I know that these people are right” as that’s not always the case.  If he’s causing you to stumble or causing problems or being really negative and nasty about stuff… or anything that would classify as a good reason to break up with him… then do it.  But if he is loving you and you two have a solid relationship, be careful about how others influence you here.  Be sure in what it is that you have.  If you don’t feel that there is a future, then yes… you need to address it.  But you have to make your OWN decision on this issue.  Listening to others is a great thing, but at the end of the day, it’s your choice.  You have to decide that he isn’t bringing anything to the table… that your partnership with him is not healthy or somehow a negative influence on you.  If you want to break up with him because you feel that in the future there is a chance that he wouldn’t be a good fit… then ask yourself what the issue really is.  Personally, I can’t make a decision for Kevin 5 years from now.  I have no idea who that person is right now.  I have no doubt he’ll kick ass somehow, but I can’t see that future clearly.  Nobody can.  

So if your man is bringing you down and there are problems between you that you truly feel can’t be resolved, then I do think that you two should break up.  If your man supports you and you both love each other dearly… and the only reason you are looking to break up is because of potential future plans… then you may need to find the root cause of why you are feeling this way.  

Listening to our friends is always great because we get an outside view, but be sure on this.  I always get nervous when people try and tell me how things should be for me.  People do often mean for the best, but my life is my life to lead.  That doesn’t mean that I don’t listen to others, but it HAS to be my choice.  So try your best to think about this critically.  

Lastly, remember that in a relationship… you BOTH work on things together.  Maybe some of the things that he’s doing, he doesn’t realize.  But that takes communication from you to him.  Maybe there are some things that you are doing that bothers him.  Communication is VERY important here!  Communication is ALWAYS important.  Without it, we typically assume the worst, and that’s just not fair.

Let me know how it goes.  I’m definitely here for you!

~kev

Anonymous
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Your voice is so soothing, appealing, and relaxing. I love your resonant, "earthy" tones. You should make a podcast reading some of Shakespeare's love sonnets. This would be so unbelievably wonderful!

I have actually tried to record one of those once, but I was never happy with it.  Hahaha… Any suggestion as to which you’d like for me to read aloud?  I think I’d try again, but I will end up blushing and probably deleting it.  Hahaha…

Thank you tho!  I’m glad you like my “earthy” tones.  RAWR!  That really made me smile.  Thank you!

~kev

Anonymous
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How much of your sex involves kissing? I find that there are days I just want to hold him and kiss. The satisfaction and joy is perfect. It isn't all about getting off and getting on. Is it a big part of your love the man activity?

It IS a big part of my “love the man” activity! Hahaha… I’m a HUGE kisser.  In fact, when we’re grinding and just want to have fun together… he knows that if he wants to send me over the edge, he’ll kiss me passionately.  RAWR!  It seriously gets me going quickly.  I love love love love love love love kissing.  

So I’ll go for broke and tell you that kissing is DEFINITELY a big part of my sex.  RAAAAWR!  :-D  

Great question!  haha…

~kev