Anonymous
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Your blog makes me smile. I visit your blog every day and I love what you reblog. I can't help it, everything you do for example what you write on your blog or podcasts you record instantly give me a happy feeling.

Well thank you so much!  That means so much to me.  You come here every day?!  *blush*  Aww… Thank you!! :-D

RAWR!

~kev

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Podcast!

If you were busy over the weekend and missed it, I did post a podcast for you all to check out! :-)

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/tagged/podcast

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/tagged/podcast

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/tagged/podcast

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/tagged/podcast

It’s the top one located there.  Let me know what you think! :-)

RAWR!

~kev

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Anonymous
asks:
So I have this friend that knows I'm bi/gay and I've told him about how I feel about him and he says he's "straight" but a lot of people ask me if he's gay or if we are dating Idk if they think that because we're interracial that are really close or because we just look like a typical white and black couple! HOW DO I KNOW IF HES TRULY STRAIGHT OR GAY?

Well, if he tells you that he is straight after you telling him how you feel, then there is really nothing left to do.  

I mean, you can have a talk with him once more, and make sure he knows that you are someone safe he can speak to about his sexuality, but often times that can make people uncomfortable… specifically if he has already told you that he is straight.

There is a solid chance that he IS straight and so comfortable with his sexuality that he is fine getting close to someone who is bi/gay.  As it really should be in our society already.

If after talking to him, he still claims that he is straight, I would recommend leaving it how it is.  Why?  Because let’s say deeeeeep down he does have some latent homosexual feelings.  The last thing you need is to force it out of him.  There would be reason for him to think that you “forced” him to address it.  That usually leads to resentment.  You don’t want that.

The best you can do is to continue to be there for him.  He may never tell you that he’s interested in men… and you have to be ok with that even if you sense otherwise.  Why?  Because you have to trust his words.  You have to believe in what he says.

I have met a few guys that have sworn to me that they are straight.  Years later some have actually come out.  And some have not.  There’s no sure way to know.  

I know this is hard.  It makes it even harder because you’re interested in him.  But you will absolutely have to go with what he tells you.  I know that sucks, but it’s really the only thing you can do.

Until he communicates otherwise, you are going to have to continue seeing him as a straight man.  Maybe as you continue to be his friend and all, he may one day choose to tell you that he is also interested in men.  But that also may never happen despite how comfortable he is around you.  He may honestly BE straight.

It’s easy to get caught up into wanting someone we’re interested in to be just like us, but until he tells you otherwise, you’re going to NEED to see him as your straight friend.  I know that’s hard, but it will honestly be the best for you at this point.  If down the road he tells you something more, then maybe you can start entertaining those thoughts once more…but as it stands now, he’s told you that he is straight.  And he claims this even after knowing how you feel.  

I know this is hard, but you may need to focus elsewhere for someone to date, and keep this guy as a really cool straight friend of yours.  

I hope this helps.  I know this is really difficult, but until he says otherwise, I think this is the best course of action.  

I’m here for you!

~kev 

Another podcast!  Yay!

Time: 21:22 minutes

Cum at the end:  Yes

Just another random podcast about men, dick and homosexuality.  Yes, I know…but I enjoy the subject a LOT.

Let me know what you think!

Donate:  http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/donate

Thank you so much for consideration.  :-D

RAAAAWR!  I hope you guys enjoyed it!  LIKE this…and feel free to reblog it if you feel that your followers would appreciate my podcasts.

MUAH!

~kev

Thank you!

Thank you to everyone who sent me a message.

Apparently two days ago, I hurt my lower back pretty bad.  The pain has been excruciating… still is… but I’m pushing through it.  I wish I knew what I did to cause it.  I finally relented and went to urgent care, and I’m glad I did.  They did several tests and think I may have torn a muscle down in my back.  The doctor admitted after that he was sure (because of the pain) that I had a kidney stone.  Glad that wasn’t the case, but if this pain is in any comparison to a kidney stone… then I know I definitely don’t want that.

In any event, I’m resting.  Since I’m required to have some down time, you all may see me a bit more.  :-)

You are all such an amazing support system for me.  Thank you everyone!

I’ll be back up on my feet soon enough.  RAWR!

~kev

:-(

Headed to urgent care…

asks:
Why are you such an awesome guy?

Awwwwwwwwwww…. why are you making me blush so much!?  *blush blush blush*

Seriously… I’m really blushing right now.  And only the dogs are looking… wait, both are asleep.  So yea, nobody is seeing this and I’m blushing hardcore.  Lol.  OMG.  Haha…

Thank you so much for your kind words.  I’m just me, and I want to help where I can.  I surely appreciate your comment/question.  Truly… I’m still blushing.

Great question! ;-)  j/k  Thank you so much for that… totally made me smile…

~kev

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Hey, Kevin - hope you are well. I haven't been on the chat room for a while, and was back this evening -- what a great bunch of guys! Great conversation, interspersed with some spicy photos -- I've been on other chat rooms occasionally, and this is by far the best. Thanks for making it available. Lempriere

Lempriere!

I’m glad you have fun there!  I love love love that place when I have a chance to be there.  I’ve been so nutso with work that I haven’t had the time to spend there usual.  

But I will stress how many amazing people are in the chat room.  They are some of the most caring guys I have ever met, and truly have been lucky to get to know some of them.  If any of you ever have the chance to visit, please do.  And if nobody is in there, stick around.  People show up randomly, and then sometimes due to that, it can get really crazy!!

Thank you for your kind words.  I’m glad that you love mine the best!  

For those of you who want to check it out, please do!!

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/chat

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/chat

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/chat

http://gaymalelove.tumblr.com/chat

RAWR!  You won’t be sorry.  I mean it.  The guys there rock!  And thank you Lempriere for the feedback!  I’m honored that each and every one of them finds time to stop by (yourself included).  :-)

~kev