Anonymous
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Hey Kev, I saw a loving gay couple at Ikea yesterday and it made me smile and think of you. :)

RAWR!  Awwww… that’s adorable.  I’m setting that more and more nowadays and it just makes me happy!  Rock on! :-D  RAAAAWR!

~kev

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1) What do you do when you're sad/depressed and 2) how to be confident because confidence is sexy. :)

When I’m sad and depressed, I end up playing video games.  A friend of mine writes in a journal.  Another friend works out.  Some people eat (careful!).  There are a million things you can do when you are sad/depressed.  You just have to find what works for you.  And to answer that question, you need to determine what makes you happy.  Do you like to cook?  What about cleaning your place (Yes, some people relax when cleaning!)?  Some people build something.  Some people fix things.  Need to work on something that you keep putting off?  Now is the time!  A lot of people I know read when they are sad.  They go to a far off place through a book and get to put their lives on hold for awhile.  

Some people masturbate.  Some have sex.  Some go traveling.  Others head to the beach.  There are SERIOUSLY a BILLION ways to get out of that sad/depressed funk.  We all have been there.  Just focus on what you enjoy.  Drawing?  gardening? driving around?  horseback riding? surfing?  climbing? painting? sewing? fashion? LARP’ing? (Live Action Role Playing… I’ve seen it done… haha…)  What makes you happy is unique to you.  I tend to play video games or hang out with my friends.  

How do you build confidence?  Start small.  Talk to the cashier when you’re leaving the store.  Yes, some cashiers don’t really care to talk… but I say something short… just as practice…. “I hope they’re not keeping you guys too busy here today” or “How often do you guess what people are trying to make for dinner?”  Lol… stuff like that.  If they don’t want to talk… just smile at you and keep at their job… that’s fine.  You at least built up the confidence to do it.  And if they talk back, have a brief talk.  Nothing monumental.  Just talk.  

That’s how I build confidence.  We all have areas that we work on, and that’s something else to remember.  We all have our moments… all have our doubts at one time or another… so don’t be afraid to step out of the box and be different.  This is advice for all of us… myself included.  Others see us differently than we see ourselves.  So we have to remember that.  Confidence does take time.  I think it also comes with self worth.  When we really truly believe in ourselves.  Sure, nerves sometimes gets the best of us… but as we continue onward and strive to do our best… that confidence builds… slowly.

I hope what I’ve said helps!  Remember, I’m out here if you need me. My delays are awful.  I apologize.  RAWR!  Just don’t forget that you got me in your corner.  I’m here for you.

~kev

Anonymous
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What do u consider a big/small dick?

What a dangerous question!  Hahaha…  

I think from all that I’ve read… the “AVERAGE” penis size is about 5.5 to 6 inches in length.  There are also many studies out there that talk about the differences when staff measures to when someone “self measures” their penis.  I think that’s fascinating.  In those studies, the average is much bigger than what is found when a staff member measures a man’s cock.  A lot of men really want big dicks so when given the chance, it seems that men will say they are bigger than they truly are.

But your question is what *I* consider a big and small penis.  And this may sound like a cop out but I truly don’t see dick in a big or small capacity.  Sure, if a man has a 3 inch penis, I would think it’s small.  And if a man shows me his 9 inch cock, I am going to stare… not because it’s big per say… but it’s a lot of dick to look at.  

To be honest, I’m not caught up on size.  There have been men out there who have surprised me when they have taken off their clothes… in both directions.  So personally, I realized that it wasn’t about the size at all.  It’s about how he used his dick.  So now I’m more fascinated in what he likes to do with it over how big it is.  Dick is dick.  It’s a beautiful way we connect to each other… through our cocks.  It’s not the size of the key… it’s how well it fits with the lock. ;-)

I hope that helps!

~kev

Anonymous
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bless you kevin. you do an awesome job helping people by answering their questions xxx

Oh, I’m trying.  With work stepping it up like 15 notches and all… it’s been hard to devote time here… but I want to answer all the questions I got!  *sigh*  That may take a year or two. :-/

But thank you for your kind words.  I want to help out as much as I can!

~kev

Anonymous
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I wish I was born a woman but I don't think I'm transgender or want to physically become a female?

Well, I think that’s more a question for you to answer than for me to answer, unfortunately.

Some gay men wish they were born as a female since some think that somehow that would make getting a guy easier.  Some of my female friends chuckle at that notion.  I’m not sure if that may be one of the reasons that you wish to be a woman.

Some gay men wish for it, but are just not interested in the surgery because they don’t feel that we have come far enough medically to make them feel like a woman.  I have a friend of mine in this category.  He calls himself a “non-op transexual” because he wishes to be female but is not willing to go through the treatments and surgeries necessary.  Oh, and the reason I call him “HE” instead of “SHE” is that I have only known him as a man and he still goes by (in his terms) a male name.

So I guess this really gets down to what it is that you want in life.  I know that there are plenty of men who feel the same way as you do… and there’s nothing wrong with it.  Explore how you feel.  I think as you take a true look at how you feel, you’ll start to figure out what it is that you truly want.  :-)

Thanks for the message!

~kev

Anonymous
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Does dick size really matter?

I truly believe it’s the motion of the ocean not the size of the ship.  I truly do.

There are definitely men out there who desire large cock inside them.  I can tell you that while those men are out there, there are just as many who don’t want large cocks inside them.  It really is a personal preference.  

I believe that all cock is beautiful to look at… big, small, fat, thin… any really.  Cock is cock.  And that’s a great thing!  They each look so beautiful and have such personality.  I mean it!  RAWR!

So I think dick size is definitely something that matters to some men…but not all men.  Great question!

~kev

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Hey, kev -- is anyone else having difficulty with the chat-room log-in? Every time I try to log in, I first get the mib window; I click --in a couple of seconds it returns to a new mib window, and if I click on that -- it just gives me the blue connecting line -- but doesn't connect.

Are you still having issue?  I keep logging in and it’s working fine, but sometimes others do and I don’t have the problem.  If so, email me at ghey@me.com with a screenshot of what is going on and I can try and help.  I have no idea why it would do that.

~kev

Anonymous
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A nice dick or a nice ass?

Both?  I mean, why not, right?  If we’re wanting one or the other, why not both? Hahaha… 

I don’t think I could decide on which I would want more.  A nice ass is a beautiful way to slide into a man… getting to know him in such an intimate way.  And a nice cock is so much fun to get close to and lick and taste.  

I mean, I don’t think I could choose between the two at all… honestly.  I love that we men can focus on one or the other or even both.  It’s hot to play with a nice ass, travel past his taint and be licking all over those nuts! 

RAWR!  hahaha… I love it.  Wonder what you guys think.  A nice dick or a nice ass?  :-D  

~kev

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I love that your blog is full of hot and sexy pics which make my dick hard but also cute and sweet pics which make my heart melt. I am also in love with your podcasts! :D You have an amazing voice.

*blush*  Thank you!  Gah… I’m blushing so much.  Thank you thank you thank you.  That means a lot to me… all of what you said!! :-)  

RAAAAAWR!

~kev

Anonymous
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Lol im not trying to brag but I'm just trying to tell someone who will appreciate it as much as me. Cause my friends don't know anything/anyone in gay porn. But I had sex with Dean Phoenix today, he has one of those blank grinder profiles but he messaged me and sent me a picture. And I thought I was just getting catfished but I went over to his apartment and it was him. And Shit the best sex ever and he knew how to use his tongue and it was fucking amazing I just thought you might appreciate it

RAWR!  I hope you had fun! Hahahaha… ;-)  

~kev

Anonymous
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What do u use to keep ur server up? Hamachii? There is several ways to have a minecraft server up with room for 999 people :P

Oh, Im going through their realm service.  And I know… I could do a server that could do a lot better than their realm service… but I wanted somewhere easy to play that would just work with their stuff out of the box.  Dorky, I know.  Haha…

~kev

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Anonymous
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MC on pc? Or what console? If PC what server? 😏

Minecraft on PC.  And I have my own little place where I play.  If you are interested in joining, send me a message!  It’s small so I can’t take many. :(

RAWR!

~kev