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Real love - absolutely fantastic :)
*********************Wow.  I completely agree.  Amazingly fantastically awesomely real.  :-D
Wow.  He absolutely has my support on this.  Use that recipe!  :-)
Great submission.  Thank you so much!
~kev

Real love - absolutely fantastic :)

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Wow.  I completely agree.  Amazingly fantastically awesomely real.  :-D

Wow.  He absolutely has my support on this.  Use that recipe!  :-)

Great submission.  Thank you so much!

~kev

Anonymous
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So this is a little off topic than being gay, or anything like that but I need some advice. I recently decided to move to another city, because I think it's what's best for me in my life right now. And ever since I told my two best friends, I'm finding myself feeling very distanced from them. I just don't know what to do. You'd think they'd want to spend a bit more time with me now that they know I'm leaving (not to sound selfish). I'd love to hear your opinion Kev, thanks! :)

Well, a couple of things could be going on here.  There’s a chance they may be upset if you didn’t tell them you were thinking about going before you made the choice to leave.  Friends can feel slighted when you do that.  I can’t tell from your message if that was the case or not, so I thought I’d throw it in there in case they weren’t involved.

What if they did know prior to you making a choice?  Well, then I would say that it’s most likely them pulling away so as not to be hurt by you leaving.  Another city, from what you’ve said, makes it sound like it’s going to be pretty far away.  So there may be a chance that they are pulling away because they don’t want the final day to be so painful.  

I’ve pulled away from friends when I knew they were going away.  I can’t say it was always the best decision, but sometimes it’s hard to deal with those emotions.  Maybe they don’t want to be upset… and seeing you just reminds them that soon you will be gone.  

And they could also be supporting each other.  It’s really hard to say.

That’s the best thought I can come up with on your situation.  They may not know how to tell you to stay… and may be struggling with saying anything because they do also want what’s best for you.

I know it’s hard not to take personal, but know that they may very well be protecting their hearts in this situation.  I know there were times that was the case for me.  I was so upset that I didn’t want the person to leave… that I just couldn’t be near them.  :-/

That’s what I think.  I’d love to hear others thoughts on this matter… if anyone wants to chime in.  

Thank you for the question.  It’s definitely worth thinking about.

I hope that helps!

~kev

Anonymous
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I think your next podcast should cover moaning! ;)

Interesting.  I never thought about that, but I could do one on moaning.  hahaha… or is that a trick!? lol… j/k

I’ll have to think about that one!  Great suggestion!

~kev

Anonymous
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during one of your podcasts you told us to open our legs. when I did I smelt a huge wave of manly musk and came right then. (I then kept jerkin and came again at the count down). I thought you'd like to hear that.

I absolutely love hearing that.  Wow.  Thank you!  :-D  That’s really really really sexy.  RAWR!  :-)  Yum.  Tell me when you do that again.  ;-)

Thank you so much for sharing that with me.  That truly rocks!  RAAAAWR!

~kev

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"The Greeks thought that homosexuality was more pure than heterosexuality, because one of the main purposes of heterosexuality is the option of reproduction. The Greeks considered heterosexuals desire for only this to be greedy, where as homosexual love is more about true love for the other person, not just the desire to reproduce. Also, because homosexual love isn’t the dominant culture. It’s different." - MIND BLOWN, We're different in an adorable, loving, passionate and sexy way ! :D

Thank you for this!  Definitely blows my mind!  Wow.  I want everyone to read that and think about what that means.  Seriously.  

Thank you so much.  :-)  What a great thing to focus on!  I copied that to my desktop list. :-D

~kev

Anonymous
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Why are men sooooo hot?! Please describe why! So hot.... like you....

Men… ahh… men… are just awesome.  Men make my day.  Seeing a guy just being himself… tugging at his business… smiling… just being a dude.. hair where there needs to be hair… confidence… hardness…  just all man.  I mean, what’s not to love, right?!

Everything about a guy… his legs, his feet, his arms, his armpits, his hands, his chest, his face, that ass!, that dick, those shoulders… just everything is amazing about a man.  

RAWR!

Thanks for helping me get my mind off stuff.  This is such a great topic!

~kev

Anonymous
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So sorry about your friend. Hugs

It’s ok.  It’s certainly a bummer.   I’ll never forget him.

Thank you for the hugs and comment. :)

Anonymous
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Does age matter in gay relationship?

It can.  I would suspect it matters a bit more when there is an age gap involved.

Why?  Depending upon the gap in age, the younger can sometimes feel less like a partner and more like a “follower”… while sometimes the older can feel the need to “be in charge” or get frustrated over something that the younger one has done.  Does age matter here?  Yes, but it absolutely can be overcome.  

If you are asking about whether or not age matters when it comes to relationships… I know plenty of people that act much older than their age… and plenty of guys who act much younger than their age.  It all truly depends upon the person more than anything concerning age.  I hope that makes sense.

I think age isn’t something to be afraid of.  I do think that people should be with the person that makes them happy… not worry about the age of said person.  That said, I think there needs to be constant communication in the relationship so you both remain equals…partners… and not one in charge and one follower… unless, of course, THAT is what you prefer.  I do know some men who love that style and that’s perfectly fine.

Age, to me, is a number.  I truly could care less about age when it comes to people.  I love getting to know people who are like minded… that’s my focus.  I hope that all makes sense.  Lol.

RAWR!

Excellent question!

~kev

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An update…

I wanted to let you all know that the move went well and unpacking has been going well too, but that wasn’t the point of my update today.

I had a friend of mine pass away today. He was young… Not even yet 30… And died due to cancer.

It hit me really hard as Chris and I knew him well. He wasn’t local to us any longer so we won’t be able to attend the funeral but he is in our thoughts.

If I am quiet or unresponsive for a little bit, please know why. He was in remission and I had no idea it came back so aggressively.

I’m in shock. I really don’t even know what to say.

I appreciate your thoughts/prayers/good vibes.

~kev

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magicalgaylove:

wish i could go to bed like this and wake up in the same position!

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magicalgaylove:

wish i could go to bed like this and wake up in the same position!

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