I see it in a different light, I guess.  We’re enjoying someone together.  To me, and I know this sounds terrible, but it’s like bringing toys to the bedroom.  We’re doing something different by having someone else there…but it’s for fun.  The guy is having fun as well… so all three of us are just enjoying the moment.

I have his heart, and he has mine… and that will never change.  Having someone else in our bedroom isn’t a negative thing…because we’re not after it.  It happens when it happens and only when we’re both ok with it.  There have been guys that one or the other of us did like but the other didn’t… so nothing happened.

And this isn’t for everyone… nor would I recommend it for everyone.  We’ve been together for 9 years so there’s a trust level that wouldn’t have been there in the first year we dated.

And I absolutely appreciate your feedback.  For you, it doesn’t sound like that’s an option, and that’s absolutely ok.  For some people, it will never be ok.  And for others, it is.

My relationship with Chris is amazing.  I love him more than life itself.  Being able to do something like that together is a blast for us… as we both enjoy it, but it’s not something happens often…because again… that’s not how we do things.

By no means will I try and convince you to try it before judging… as that’s just not me.  There are people out there that don’t like that we’ve done three ways, and that’s fine.  I can’t change someone’s opinion, but all of us guys are into different things.  If you’re not into it, don’t do it!  That would honestly be my best recommendation.

Thanks for the feedback!

kev