to noisecannon. The fact of the matter, is that he is doing all this stuff; coming out to friends, and etc. Most guys that are in the closet consider that a rather violent step forward that very few would even consider in so little length of time. Since he is forgoing these steps at a rather impressive pace, mind you this is all speculation, he wants out of the closet. Try asking him what he wants and try and what he sees of all this.