noisecannon
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that was mad helpful kev :D yeah i would never want him to view me as a teacher instead of a lover. like, the one with more experience, therefore, superior. no, never, i did tht once and it didn't end up very good. I never push anything, because I enjoy my life outside of my romantic relationships, y'know? and i get that people need time and space to themselves, so i try not to impose too much. nevertheless, i sometimes get scared that the other person feels trapped, or something. it's stupid xP

It’s not stupid … not stupid at all.  You’re trusting someone else with your heart so you want to know that they feel the same as you feel for them.

I’m glad you don’t push anything.  That’s important.  And very healthy.

Now you may want to answer this privately (let me know if you want it posted or not) but have you two… well… gone all the way yet or are you both waiting for awhile longer?  I’m curious to know.

And I’m glad that you want him to see you as a lover only.  Sure you’ll teach him things, but make sure he knows that you want to learn things from him too.  It’ll make him feel like he’s contributing something…and let’s be honest, we can all stand to learn new things anyways.  :-)

As long as you’re taking things slow (like you already said) then I think things will work out.  It will just take some time until he’s more comfortable, but it sounds like he’s already getting that way pretty fast.

That’s awesome.  I love this story and I want you to promise to keep us updated! :-)

You rock man.  You truly do! :-)  And if you two get married, I want an invite to the wedding! lol…

kev

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