and btw props to the anon for pointing that out! i already sat him down and discussed that because i was kinda suspicious about this impressive pace. he said he was already having these thoughts for quite a few months, but as i said before, he was always a very very sure person and confident of himself, so i dont think he considers it a violent step. it wasnt hard for me either, the coming out. then again, im bi not gay x/ i'm still trying to figure what goes exactly through his mind lol