Well, hate is a strong word. I don’t know what happened between the two of you… but I would tell you to try and sort that out before worrying whether or not men will accept you.
What’s going on with your mom? I’d like to hear more about that.
But ultimately… you’re question… I know men will accept you for who you are. I would think you wouldn’t even have to start telling them about her right out of the gate… but I dunno.
I am sorry to hear that things with her are that bad.
If you need anything else, I’m here for you.