to the guy who is depressed cuz he is 18 and never bin with a guy. i can tell you you just need to be patient (i know that sounds like what every body is saying but it is true) i am 22 and have never bin with a guy not even kiss i just have not found the guy that is for me (i have the same prob not in to effeminate men and i live in a small town in oklahoma) it sounds like you are looking for some one to shear every thing with not just for sex. we just have to be patient the right man will come.

Thanks for your feedback! (onto part 2)